Lastly, I am proud to be a feminist because it creates an inclusive environment of values that I chose to live in. It's like a boyscout's badge of all the labels I give myself. I have a knot tying badge, a bird watchers badge, and a tea drinking badge.
Congrats! You’re gay! It’s because you have a genetic disposition to being gay. But if you ever not want to be gay, you can just change your environment to decrease your disposition of being gay.
The clashing of these values is a regular occurrence in every young person’s life, only it can be emphasized within immigrant cultures. There is no right path or decision. The problem is that EVERYONE has an opinion about it.